After a lightning strike took out an ACW controller, and about $1500 additional miscellaneous devices, I bought an industrial grade "surge protector". This device guards all three phases, and has panel lights to show that the A, B, and C phases are powered.
It also has relay outputs that trigger if any of the phases go bad.
It would be nice to wire it so that the MAIN cuts off if any of the phases drop off, but that would require a very expensive motorized disconnect. For now, we use the device for surge protection only, and also as a way to visually see that all three legs are powered.
BTW, I got this ($700???) device on EBay for $150.....so keep your eyes peeled.