Wait, so they are not factory pulleys? Or do you mean you still have the factory ones? I'm betting they are factory, as I wouldn't see any need to change... I think I would delete the HP
soap option and save some money... I really doubt this is the case, but perhaps you have chemical working against the springs over time... Do you choke the pump with a ball valve? As far as stopping the pump, as long as the unloader is set at 1000 psi, the relief should open and the pump shouldn't feel any difference. Is there odd coloration of the valve springs as compared to new ones when you remove them? I have also seen this once where an electrician replaced a motor with a high speed motor accidentally... Wow! was that a mess! 2 or three valve springs broke, but the pump survived.