Wow, Micah took me back 25 years to nursing school with one post!
The phases of grief as written by Kubel-Ross (sp... sorry). I'll post a link and the phases:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kübler-Ross_model
The K?bler-Ross model describes, in five discrete stages, the process by which people deal with grief and tragedy. Terminally ill patients are said to experience these stages. The model was introduced by Elisabeth K?bler-Ross in her 1969 book On Death and Dying. The stages have become well known, and are called the Five Stages of Grief.
The stages are:
Denial : The initial stage: "It can't be happening."
Anger : "Why ME? It's not fair?!" (either referring to God, oneself, or anybody perceived, rightly or wrongly, as "responsible")
Bargaining : "Just let me live to see my son graduate."
Depression : "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"
Acceptance : "It's going to be OK."
K?bler-Ross originally applied these stages to any form of catastrophic personal loss (job, income, freedom). This also includes the death of a loved one and divorce. K?bler-Ross also claimed these steps do not necessarily come in order, nor are they all experienced by all patients, though she stated a person will always experience at least two.