Yea, thats the million dollar question...There are mathmatical formulas that you can use, but you are right, it can get complicated. You can start by checking flow rates of the pumps and calculate capacity and head pressure of each zone. I remember you want about 2-3 ft per minute flow rate through each of the loops to get the proper heat transfer...There are online calculators that tell you how much fluid volume the 1/2" pex has per foot...Yes it gets complex...You need to start with the bays and work backwards to figure out the pump size....It sounds like you have a lot more surface you are heating compared to my cw...I only have (4) bay zones and a trough zone connected to 1" manifolds. The trough loop barely has any load once it gets warm and it also has the heat tape to help. It stays at about 110° since its insullated....Plus you have 2" supplies...A taco 013 will probably not be big enough to handle the load you have. 2 in parallel might, it will give you about 60gpm with no head restrictions. But I would probably size the pump for 2" and the gpm you need after calculating....Going to get expensive?! BTW, are the slotted screw fittings like ball valves? You only need to adjust/throttle the zones going out to the bay. The return manifold fittings need to be wide open. Good luck!