Good question. Ideally you want to use the one the system was designed for. Some of them don't have adjustments and just have solid fittings drilled out to a certain size to allow the right amount of flow, and usually have a pump made for a particular flow. If a system like that is made for a 2200 GPD and you put a 2500 in it, the pressure won't reach what it's supposed to and the product quality will suffer. Most equipment has an adjustment somewhere to control pressure, so you can use most any membrane as long as you keep it under 200 PSI. You can use the 2500 in your Coleman unit.
FWIW, I only use Dow Filmtec, and I always rebed the charcoal filter with new membranes. They usually last about ten years.